However, once you become comfortable, the not-so-good-and-attractive bits start to show. [Read: Signs that it’s time to say I love you] #14 You’re not even close. Your feel unready, despite the length of your dating timeline.This can be a hindrance for you in accepting his declaration of love and/or attempt to move your relationship to the next level.Fix your hair, fix your dress, and bolt out the door. The bedroom is not the best place to say anything near the L word for the first time.
If he is saying I love you, but you’re not sure who else he is saying those words to, then you will have a big problem if you believe what he says. So he says he loves you, but he’s not serious about your relationship or is not willing to commit? If he’s saying one thing and doing another, then he’s not really sincere and may just be manipulating you.
If he says those words, think about how you feel in that exact moment. [Read: Signs your guy means it when he says I love you] #8 Is he in it for the long haul?
You better hope he doesn’t say the L-word during these moments.
At this point, maybe that’s his beer-version of “thank you.” #13 How well does he know you?
Who knows—the guy might even be visualizing having sex with his ex for all you know.