You get to show that off in the courtship portion of dating.
Keep’em interested After the first date is locked-in and completed, the assessment period begins.
Trust me; ladies are thinking about where the relationship is going to go long before they ever met you. At some point everyone thinks, “Am I going to get laid? Here is the kicker, if your version of winning is getting laid, then you only have to be interesting for a short while. This is the agreement stage of dating meaning that you mutually decide the terms of engagement. “I finally have a significant other to hold my hand, to be with me, to love and have sex with.” This stage can be equated with arrival. Also, the real tip to winning is that there is no real formula except to try and try again.
If your version of winning is gaining and sustaining a long-term partnership then you have to keep’em interested. This is where you blend all parts you with all parts them and bake a relationship. It can feel good because it can seemingly take the sting of uncertainty out of your future. Finally, sing the Rolling Stones’ lyrics with me: Author’s Note: Different parameters may apply to various sexual orientations.
The first months of dating are all about data collection.